Showing posts with label reading. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reading. Show all posts

Thursday, September 14, 2017

Recommended Readings


above Muir Beach
I have a long commute and one benefit from that is the time to read. Most of the time I read something on my phone, pieces I find by scrolling my Twitter feed or through a few choice websites, or from one of the newsletters I subscribe to. This year I've been trying to be more diligent about reading actual books as well, and tapping into the wonderful SF Public Library. Here's a sampling of what I've enjoyed, in print and digital, in no particular order:

from goodreads

Half of a Yellow Sun (novel): At the start of the year, my former roommate sent an email to her friends around the country and suggested we do a virtual book club, focused on writings from women of color. It was our own way of showing hashtag resistance, by educating ourselves, learning from other perspectives and voicing our own. The first book was Half of a Yellow Sun by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, whose work I'd been wanting to read since I heard her featured by Beyonce (clearly, I had not yet found Adichie's amazing TED talk). This was the most well-written, captivating novel I'd read in the past year, hands down. It opened my eyes to a war in modern history that I'd never known about (even though, I learned later, another friend's family in Nigeria had lived through it). It also made me care for an ensemble cast of characters in whom I saw my own friends and family, from charismatic intellectuals to ambitious hard workers to reserved enigmas. I'll be picking up her other books soon enough.

from goodreads

Crazy Rich Asians (novel): I kept reading about the casting for the movie version of Crazy Rich Asians, and I remembered hearing about this when it came out and being excited because it was supposed to be like Gossip Girl, of which I was a fan, but about Asians & Asian-Americans, a group of which I am a part of. I never got around to reading it, though, but then this spring, a hairstylist told me how good it was, and with the movie coming out I decided to get to it. It was thoroughly entertaining; I had to google some of the brands and locations they name-dropped, I laughed at all the satire around stereotypes, and I realized I am a sucker for a romantic plot. I've since completed the trilogy, and look forward to watching the movie when it comes out.

Millennial Women and Money (Refinery29): On a more realistic/relatable scale of personal wealth, Ashley C. Ford delved into how being a young, female breadwinner impacts a relationship, especially in a time when many of us haven't seen that much (mainstream) precedence that we can use as a blueprint. The economy continues to change and the workforce along with it; good journalism like this reflects those changes and opens a dialogue to help people navigate through it all.

Age & Wisdom in the Tech Industry (HBR): "Wisdom is about pattern recognition," shares writer Chip Conley, a seasoned hospitality exec who joined Airbnb and now works with folks decades younger than him. Also: "I realized that we expect young digital-era leaders to miraculously embody relationship wisdoms, with very little training, that we elders had twice as long to learn." It was an eye-opening, and heartwarming, essay to read about the industry I work in, but it's also applicable to navigating the workplace in general. 

Doing Well by Doing Good (HuffPo): This wide-ranging interview with the CFO of Square was really inspiring. One of my motivations for being in the business world is to be able to make a social impact, and it's awesome to read about someone who's leading the way. Also, I had to click once I saw the series title was very similar to one of my Twitter lists!

Reese "Elle Tracy Woods Flick" Witherspoon (Glamour): Reese is the patron saint of women being underestimated. Her stories and advice here are priceless. The lesson she learned from Mindy Kaling was like a dagger through the heart. Witherspoon-Kaling 2020.

Tuesday, October 4, 2016

Links Roundup (Reading Lately)



I have to admit, I spend so much time glued to a screen and read as much as I can to keep up with the world. Here's what's caught my eye lately:

The WSJ on the Queen Bey: "The Houston-born singer’s business savvy goes back to the late 1990s, when she was managed by her father, who taught her the music business." I remember totally jamming to Destiny's Child when I was a pre-teen and I continue to be in awe of the empire she's built. May we all remember, we have just as many hours in a day as Beyonce.

The Missing Piece - oldie but a goodie from Shel Silverstein on what to remember about love and relationships. Maybe all the life lessons we need, we learned as children.

Also on relationships: The Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Marriage. Interesting to see it from the perspective of someone who's seen the failures.

I watched this movie a couple weeks ago when I was feeling some New York nostalgia, but I'm not sure if I'll ever be able to pull off a Margot Tenenbaum costume.

Online privacy: cancelling forgotten accounts and seeing what Facebook's got on you.

Newsletters (the email kind): I've mentioned a couple before, but I also enjoy Another Round, The What, and Of a Kind.




Thursday, May 5, 2016

Life Lately: Exercise, Diet, and Connecting with Others

Baker Beach

We're heading into the weekend and I feel more and more like it's summer, with the balmy weather and long days. Last weekend I had my first real beach day (as in, sitting out in the sun, not hiking to/from the beach) and it's just what I needed. I've had so much on my mind lately, here's some of what I've been up to:

I tried Zumba for the first time and it was really fun. Not sure how I missed the initial phenomenon, but doing it now is good because the music is fun and makes the time go faster. (I don't like a lot of actual workouts, but I like the effects.) My office gym is offering free group classes for the next month so I've decided I should go to at least one during the week. On weekends, I've been going to Pilates and just bought a new pass for the yoga place that I like. I don't have any hikes planned soon so I should probably get on that.

Coincidentally, I jumped on the Whole30 diet bandwagon and have crossed the halfway mark (it's basically 30 days of even cleaner Paleo). I've never done a real diet (I gave up on a juice cleanse on Day 1) but lucky for me, a couple friends were also doing Whole30 so the partnership and accountability really helps. Honestly, the first couple days without bread and added sugar were worrisome, but since then I've felt great. Of course I still psychologically want pizza and the like, but my body doesn't crave these foods like it used to. I thought it would be tough to go without alcohol as well, but the truth is my hangovers just kill me now that I'm 30. And knowing how great I feel without all this in my body is going to make me avoid the unhealthy stuff more (if not totally, since hey, I still like french fries). The diet's also made me be better about food prep and cooking at home rather than relying on take out. At the end of the 30 days, I'm supposed to start reintroducing the ingredients that I temporarily eliminated and see how my body reacts so I can make longer term adjustments to my eating practices.

In terms of mental practice - Have you ever sought advice from someone and come out feeling lighter and more confident about a given situation? I had some good business/career conversations with folks in the last week or so, and they helped me think through some challenges I'm facing. Not much else to share on that, just that it's good to reach out to others, they usually are more than willing to help.

Finally, I have never successfully been part of a long-term book club, and I actually don't think I know anyone who has. A couple friends at work and I were joking we need to have an 'article club' since we already share good news articles with each other, mainly on tech and overall business and finance. Here are some recent articles I found interesting:

Tory Burch on owning her ambition: Fortune
What's behind Facebook's success: Wired
Tech companies with the best engineering talent: Fast Company
Individuality and the School Uniform (harkens back to my recent post!!): The Billfold

Recent photos from around San Francisco:


Baker Beach


El Techo



Smokestack

Smokestack


my mocktail at Smokestack


Monday, October 12, 2015

Role Models: Why Not Me?

goodreads

A couple weeks ago I read Why Not Me? by Mindy Kaling and thoroughly enjoyed it. Not surprising since I'm a fan of her first book as well. The "All the Opinions You Will Ever Need" section was my favorite (it featured the great essay on confidence). Her reflections on said confidence, body image, 4 a.m. anxieties, and hard work are hilarious and completely spot on.

Thursday, September 24, 2015

Life (& Links) Lately

good advice, Mission district

I've had a bunch of ideas and unfinished drafts for posts that hopefully I'll get to soon. It's hard to believe summer is 'over' though in SF terms we are still drawing it out. This past weekend I was at Ocean Beach for a few glorious hours with friends (& their friends) coming and going. It was one of those serendipitous times when everyone is actually free at the same time and willing to meet in the same spot.


Links I've Been Reading:
Claire Mazur's My Beauty Uniform interview on Cup of Jo - I really love the Of a Kind newsletter by Claire and her business partner Erica, and I'd be lying by omission if I didn't say I admire Claire's curly hair.

a reflection on clothing purchases on The Billfold - recently I donated another (small) bag of clothes that mostly came from the "I haven't worn this in a while but maybe I still want it" pile. Luckily they weren't items I purchased in the past year.

Good news came today in that my alma mater made a gesture in support of Cosby's victims and women everywhere. This is the first time Fordham has taken back an honorary degree. Sometimes there is a little bit of justice in the world.

Elle's interview of Judith Light - I finally got around to checking out Transparent and love her in it, so I googled what was up with her.

[updated] This interview of travel writer Kelly Lack after I came across her instagram and heard about the new app Spot.

I also finished Mindy Kaling's Why Not Me? in less than a week (that's really quick for me these days) while commuting and waiting for a table at a trendy brunch place. I definitely want to write more about that - and some friends and I decided we should finally just create a book club and make that our first book. Coming up soon are a family visit, some concerts, and some friends' weddings. Finally, I have just a few weeks left of my 20s. I always consider my birthday my own personal 'new year' and, helped along with back-to-school season I guess, usually around this time of year I try to recharge and consider how far I've come (pretty far), and what else there is to accomplish (quite a lot).

Friday, August 7, 2015

Links I'm Reading


Mindy Kaling on gaining confidence: 
Work hard, know your shit, show your shit, and then feel entitled. - Glamour
I have been thinking about role models recently and Mindy is definitely one of them. I can't wait to read her new book when it comes out next month. For some more Mindy goodness, I liked her recent post for The New Yorker on TV tropes.

I've never been that into Goop (although I dig their travel guides), but this FastCo interview with Gwyneth Paltrow and CEO Lisa Gersh is fascinating: Fast Company

An old(er) article on San Francisco's Get Out and Lean (GOAL) program that helps students finish high school. Sadly, the teacher who founded it died recently, and his family, friends and students have been paying tribute to him on the local news and in social media. Here's hoping the program continues. NYTimes

Looking forward to having friends and family visit San Francisco soon, and dreaming up how to entertain them:
Golden Gate Park
Restaurants Galore
Ocean Beach
Wine Country
HMB chillin'
anything outdoors

In the meantime, I'm heading on a weekend trip and watched this (from CNTraveler) as inspiration:


Sunday, July 26, 2015

July Wrap Up (Three Years in San Francisco)


from Pinterest

This month is my three-year anniversary of moving to San Francisco! Since I moved here during the summer, every year around this time I am reminded of that whole process, especially the housing search. I remember thinking, somewhat arrogantly, that if I could survive the NYC apartment search and even the DC market, then surely I could secure a place out in this "little" city. 5 days and 15 appointments/open houses later, I finally put an earnest deposit down on a spot, and it's become my home base for the past few years of West Coast adventures.

With that, here's the latest...

Sunday, May 31, 2015

May Wrap Up


sunset at Bodega Bay

Some favorite moments of May: witnessing dear friends celebrate marriage; having my best friend visit from out of town; celebrating my husband's birthday with a weekend getaway and hiking among redwoods; and as always enjoying San Francisco during meals with friends and meandering through the Mission. I'll be at a music festival this weekend, which is the best way I could think of to start the summer.

Sunday, April 19, 2015

Life Lately


Fable, San Francisco

I went to brunch with my husband and a friend and my husband kept commenting that the restaurant patio reminded him of being in another country. I love traveling but don't have any set plans coming up, so hearing this made me smile. I love feeling like I'm on vacation when I'm actually right at home. The above photo is what he was looking at. The food was really good, too.

Not much to write about today but these are some interesting articles I've read lately:


Saturday, March 28, 2015

March Wrap Up


I've been having this feeling all winter where I think it's more like May or September, maybe because the climate is so mild... I keep pinching myself that I haven't been buried in snow like the East Coast. Now it's actually Spring which means glorious 65,70-degree weather in the Bay Area. Granted it gets cooler in the evening, particularly in San Francisco, but it still feels great to get home from work with the sun still out. Here's what's been going on this month:

Sunday, January 25, 2015

Habit

Self-improvement - I'm a little obsessed. I'm continually trying to form good habits and stopping bad ones (or at least, forming more good habits to outnumber the bad ones!). They might be habits that aren't visible/obvious to other people but still have an impact on my productivity and well-being.

Here's an article to stop a bad habit, and an article to start some good ones:

On stopping self-criticism: small answers (love this blog)
I love how it's called "The Itty Bitty Shitty Committee" ha! Amy Poehler also had some great stuff to say about quieting "the demon voice" in her fabulous book.

10 Better Money Habits for 2015: lifehacker
cuz i'm a groowwwwn woman:






Sunday, January 11, 2015

Reading List (continued)



Finished reading Yes Please by Amy Poehler and loved it. It's entertaining as hell and surprisingly a good how-to book for approaching life. 

Updated, 1/13:
Other books read recently and how they apply to life:

Not That Kind of Girl - also awesome, and fascinating, because I am so unlike Lena Dunham but I really admire her. She's brilliant.

Gone Girl - lots of fun to read (prior to watching the movie on iTunes), and more of a how-NOT-to live your life. Don't aspire to be an empty 'cool girl,' and don't frame your loved one for murder. 

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Reading List


I spent the first half of the year studying, but come summer I was really happy to read for pleasure again. These have been my favorites:

Monday, September 23, 2013

This book: Beautiful Ruins



maybe I’m a little late to the praise-party, but this book was awesome. It was a fun journey with some hilarious characters, as well as a poignant story about our life/career choices.

I bought it at the airport before a series of flights and found myself reading it every chance I got.

This book: Beautiful Ruins