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Thursday, September 14, 2017

Recommended Readings


above Muir Beach
I have a long commute and one benefit from that is the time to read. Most of the time I read something on my phone, pieces I find by scrolling my Twitter feed or through a few choice websites, or from one of the newsletters I subscribe to. This year I've been trying to be more diligent about reading actual books as well, and tapping into the wonderful SF Public Library. Here's a sampling of what I've enjoyed, in print and digital, in no particular order:

from goodreads

Half of a Yellow Sun (novel): At the start of the year, my former roommate sent an email to her friends around the country and suggested we do a virtual book club, focused on writings from women of color. It was our own way of showing hashtag resistance, by educating ourselves, learning from other perspectives and voicing our own. The first book was Half of a Yellow Sun by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, whose work I'd been wanting to read since I heard her featured by Beyonce (clearly, I had not yet found Adichie's amazing TED talk). This was the most well-written, captivating novel I'd read in the past year, hands down. It opened my eyes to a war in modern history that I'd never known about (even though, I learned later, another friend's family in Nigeria had lived through it). It also made me care for an ensemble cast of characters in whom I saw my own friends and family, from charismatic intellectuals to ambitious hard workers to reserved enigmas. I'll be picking up her other books soon enough.

from goodreads

Crazy Rich Asians (novel): I kept reading about the casting for the movie version of Crazy Rich Asians, and I remembered hearing about this when it came out and being excited because it was supposed to be like Gossip Girl, of which I was a fan, but about Asians & Asian-Americans, a group of which I am a part of. I never got around to reading it, though, but then this spring, a hairstylist told me how good it was, and with the movie coming out I decided to get to it. It was thoroughly entertaining; I had to google some of the brands and locations they name-dropped, I laughed at all the satire around stereotypes, and I realized I am a sucker for a romantic plot. I've since completed the trilogy, and look forward to watching the movie when it comes out.

Millennial Women and Money (Refinery29): On a more realistic/relatable scale of personal wealth, Ashley C. Ford delved into how being a young, female breadwinner impacts a relationship, especially in a time when many of us haven't seen that much (mainstream) precedence that we can use as a blueprint. The economy continues to change and the workforce along with it; good journalism like this reflects those changes and opens a dialogue to help people navigate through it all.

Age & Wisdom in the Tech Industry (HBR): "Wisdom is about pattern recognition," shares writer Chip Conley, a seasoned hospitality exec who joined Airbnb and now works with folks decades younger than him. Also: "I realized that we expect young digital-era leaders to miraculously embody relationship wisdoms, with very little training, that we elders had twice as long to learn." It was an eye-opening, and heartwarming, essay to read about the industry I work in, but it's also applicable to navigating the workplace in general. 

Doing Well by Doing Good (HuffPo): This wide-ranging interview with the CFO of Square was really inspiring. One of my motivations for being in the business world is to be able to make a social impact, and it's awesome to read about someone who's leading the way. Also, I had to click once I saw the series title was very similar to one of my Twitter lists!

Reese "Elle Tracy Woods Flick" Witherspoon (Glamour): Reese is the patron saint of women being underestimated. Her stories and advice here are priceless. The lesson she learned from Mindy Kaling was like a dagger through the heart. Witherspoon-Kaling 2020.

Monday, June 13, 2016

Grief, and then Action (Orlando)

I was working on posting about my recent vacation, but I am incredibly sad over the attack in Orlando this past weekend. I can't imagine the terror that the club patrons and employees felt when all they were hoping for was a fun Saturday night out. And I shudder to think that if this were in San Francisco, my own friends and I might have been in danger.

I don't watch the news, but I do read it online, along with the reactions to it. On Twitter I heard about Teen Vogue's tweets concerning the tragedy and what we can do about it. There's not much we can control in life, but we are not completely helpless. I just emailed the HuffPo form letter to my senators and congresswoman - it took 3 minutes and a few more open tabs. Anyways, I'll share the tweets here so you can act on their suggestions:



I took another piece of Teen Vogue's advice and spoke with my loved ones - we shared our grief while also sharing our own events of the day, appreciating the mundane parts of living. Here's another tweet that I appreciated in all the reactions (and yes, I'm a Hamilton fan):

It's hard to admit that we share this world with hate, terror and bigotry, but we have to remember that we can fight it with love and inclusion.

Thursday, January 2, 2014

New Years resolutions: focus on January

A friend of mine shared this article & I liked the following tip, which I’d never considered before: ”Focus on making January great - forget the rest of the year for now.”


The way I see it is this lets you gain momentum while being mindful of all that you hope to accomplish. If you decide on some goals and accomplish them in the first month of the year, you’ve done well. For me, January will be a time to set myself up nicely to accomplish things later in the year.


New Years resolutions: focus on January