Showing posts with label books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label books. Show all posts

Thursday, September 14, 2017

Recommended Readings


above Muir Beach
I have a long commute and one benefit from that is the time to read. Most of the time I read something on my phone, pieces I find by scrolling my Twitter feed or through a few choice websites, or from one of the newsletters I subscribe to. This year I've been trying to be more diligent about reading actual books as well, and tapping into the wonderful SF Public Library. Here's a sampling of what I've enjoyed, in print and digital, in no particular order:

from goodreads

Half of a Yellow Sun (novel): At the start of the year, my former roommate sent an email to her friends around the country and suggested we do a virtual book club, focused on writings from women of color. It was our own way of showing hashtag resistance, by educating ourselves, learning from other perspectives and voicing our own. The first book was Half of a Yellow Sun by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, whose work I'd been wanting to read since I heard her featured by Beyonce (clearly, I had not yet found Adichie's amazing TED talk). This was the most well-written, captivating novel I'd read in the past year, hands down. It opened my eyes to a war in modern history that I'd never known about (even though, I learned later, another friend's family in Nigeria had lived through it). It also made me care for an ensemble cast of characters in whom I saw my own friends and family, from charismatic intellectuals to ambitious hard workers to reserved enigmas. I'll be picking up her other books soon enough.

from goodreads

Crazy Rich Asians (novel): I kept reading about the casting for the movie version of Crazy Rich Asians, and I remembered hearing about this when it came out and being excited because it was supposed to be like Gossip Girl, of which I was a fan, but about Asians & Asian-Americans, a group of which I am a part of. I never got around to reading it, though, but then this spring, a hairstylist told me how good it was, and with the movie coming out I decided to get to it. It was thoroughly entertaining; I had to google some of the brands and locations they name-dropped, I laughed at all the satire around stereotypes, and I realized I am a sucker for a romantic plot. I've since completed the trilogy, and look forward to watching the movie when it comes out.

Millennial Women and Money (Refinery29): On a more realistic/relatable scale of personal wealth, Ashley C. Ford delved into how being a young, female breadwinner impacts a relationship, especially in a time when many of us haven't seen that much (mainstream) precedence that we can use as a blueprint. The economy continues to change and the workforce along with it; good journalism like this reflects those changes and opens a dialogue to help people navigate through it all.

Age & Wisdom in the Tech Industry (HBR): "Wisdom is about pattern recognition," shares writer Chip Conley, a seasoned hospitality exec who joined Airbnb and now works with folks decades younger than him. Also: "I realized that we expect young digital-era leaders to miraculously embody relationship wisdoms, with very little training, that we elders had twice as long to learn." It was an eye-opening, and heartwarming, essay to read about the industry I work in, but it's also applicable to navigating the workplace in general. 

Doing Well by Doing Good (HuffPo): This wide-ranging interview with the CFO of Square was really inspiring. One of my motivations for being in the business world is to be able to make a social impact, and it's awesome to read about someone who's leading the way. Also, I had to click once I saw the series title was very similar to one of my Twitter lists!

Reese "Elle Tracy Woods Flick" Witherspoon (Glamour): Reese is the patron saint of women being underestimated. Her stories and advice here are priceless. The lesson she learned from Mindy Kaling was like a dagger through the heart. Witherspoon-Kaling 2020.

Monday, January 11, 2016

Back in San Francisco

NYMag

Happy New Year! (Can I still say that?) I didn't make a New Years resolution but that's mostly because I don't have anything 'new'*, I just need to continue aiming for the things I've been trying to work on: being healthy and productive and having fun. That's about as detailed a manner as I want to conduct life right now. So now we're almost two weeks into 2016 and I've just spent some time just refreshing the things around me and getting back into the flow after the holidays:

Cleaning up: 

I cleaned up my phone by deleting the apps I don't use, ~1,000 photos (after backing them up, duh), texts and the media still embedded in them. I freed up 4+GB's of space which is pretty awesome since my phone is two years old now and I want to keep it for a while longer. I also went through my closet and cleared out items to donate. It's funny that I've spent a few years supposedly paring down my wardrobe but still had a bunch of stuff that I don't wear anymore. 

Shopping:

Related, I'm putting myself on another shopping hiatus for the month (11 days down!). I still keep a running list of 'wants' on my phone, so this will give me time to consider what I should actually buy. I did have 'new sneakers' on there for a while, but I got a gift card for Christmas so I was able to get them. I still have some gift card funds left, so I'll use those on the 'wants' that still make the cut when my hiatus is over.

Eating:

I did a big grocery run with the aim of planning/making more meals and filling the kitchen with healthy snacks. I spent one afternoon making a pot of bolognese sauce and meatballs, and they came out wonderfully. I also gave up coffee... and succeeded for a weekend, because on Monday I accidentally ordered a cup along with breakfast. The habit is strong, apparently. But, I'll start over and see if I could skip it for the rest of the week, then maybe reward myself with some good SF coffee this weekend.

Relaxing: 

I started/finished both seasons of Mozart in the Jungle which is really enjoyable. I'm happy for GGB winning the Golden Globe, and counting on Amazon saying yes to a third season. The show is quirky and kind of like a Wes Anderson film turned into a modern-day sitcom. Reading-wise, I've started a couple books in the past month - Gloria Steinem's My Life on the Road and Aziz Ansari's Modern Romance: An Investigation. Enjoying both so far but not really rushing through them, so maybe I'll write more later on.

Finally, I've started catching back up with friends since getting back home, and walking around the city. Travel plans are being dreamed up. In the short term, hiking/brunch/yoga plans are actually being made. I'm excited to have some friends and family visit soon, too, so I can share what I love out here and see my home city through their eyes.





*In case it sounds really boring to not have anything new, last year I went camping and ice skating for the first time, and those weren't planned out resolutions, so I'm not worried.

Monday, October 12, 2015

Role Models: Why Not Me?

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A couple weeks ago I read Why Not Me? by Mindy Kaling and thoroughly enjoyed it. Not surprising since I'm a fan of her first book as well. The "All the Opinions You Will Ever Need" section was my favorite (it featured the great essay on confidence). Her reflections on said confidence, body image, 4 a.m. anxieties, and hard work are hilarious and completely spot on.

Sunday, July 26, 2015

July Wrap Up (Three Years in San Francisco)


from Pinterest

This month is my three-year anniversary of moving to San Francisco! Since I moved here during the summer, every year around this time I am reminded of that whole process, especially the housing search. I remember thinking, somewhat arrogantly, that if I could survive the NYC apartment search and even the DC market, then surely I could secure a place out in this "little" city. 5 days and 15 appointments/open houses later, I finally put an earnest deposit down on a spot, and it's become my home base for the past few years of West Coast adventures.

With that, here's the latest...

Saturday, March 28, 2015

March Wrap Up


I've been having this feeling all winter where I think it's more like May or September, maybe because the climate is so mild... I keep pinching myself that I haven't been buried in snow like the East Coast. Now it's actually Spring which means glorious 65,70-degree weather in the Bay Area. Granted it gets cooler in the evening, particularly in San Francisco, but it still feels great to get home from work with the sun still out. Here's what's been going on this month:

Saturday, January 31, 2015

January Wrap Up

What a January! Even when it seemed quiet it was a busy time (busy in a good way, though). And the fact that it was 70 degrees on the last day of January reminded me why I love living in California. Here's what's been going on this first month of 2015:

Sunday, January 11, 2015

Reading List (continued)



Finished reading Yes Please by Amy Poehler and loved it. It's entertaining as hell and surprisingly a good how-to book for approaching life. 

Updated, 1/13:
Other books read recently and how they apply to life:

Not That Kind of Girl - also awesome, and fascinating, because I am so unlike Lena Dunham but I really admire her. She's brilliant.

Gone Girl - lots of fun to read (prior to watching the movie on iTunes), and more of a how-NOT-to live your life. Don't aspire to be an empty 'cool girl,' and don't frame your loved one for murder. 

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Reading List


I spent the first half of the year studying, but come summer I was really happy to read for pleasure again. These have been my favorites:

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

This Book: Tell Me Something, She Said

aka “What It’s Like to Fail.” a memoir from a once-successful writer in Hollywood who ended up homeless for a little while. You can read an excerpt here (it’s great) and order the book in hard copy or Kindle with the link above. I’m buying it for the next plane ride.


This Book: Tell Me Something, She Said

Monday, September 23, 2013

This book: Beautiful Ruins



maybe I’m a little late to the praise-party, but this book was awesome. It was a fun journey with some hilarious characters, as well as a poignant story about our life/career choices.

I bought it at the airport before a series of flights and found myself reading it every chance I got.

This book: Beautiful Ruins